DECEPTION! DISGRACE!

Deception....disgrace....
Evil as plain as the scar on his face...

Did you catch my Lion King reference up here? LOL I think its fitting to what I'm about to say..!

How many of us have heard people snicker and mutter behind our backs, about "how skinny she is" or "how big she's gotten" and how "many fries is she gonna eat before she becomes double obese?"
The list never ends. Its sad that the guys get victimized too, often about how "gay" they look.

But have you ever wondered why its us girls that have to endure far more trash than boys ever will?

The answer is innate in us, girls. You were born with it. And you can't escape it, because its how we're made.
We, well, we were made to be caretakers, compassionate and careful, gentle and kind. We were made to be nurturers, having little baby offspring to cuddle and care for, and to eventually nag when they're teenagers like we are now. *giggles*
:)

And yes, we were made to compliment our male friends, our male companions, our male acquaintances. Then why is it that we get tormented about how we look all the time? Where does that come into play????

Take a look at this video for a second. Some of you might have seen it already.
See it again maybe.

So there you go. Sweet teenage girl, meet Photoshop. Its what everybody uses these days, did you know?
Well, I certainly wasn't aware until recently. I knew Photoshop existed, but when you're looking at J Lo posing like that on the E! magazine, you aren't thinking about Photoshop..! Nobody thinks its photoshop! right?

Take a look at this video too. If you've got time. Might make things clearer. :)

We often forget what we look like, and who we're looking at in the mirror. We forget that we're the only people we can be, and that no matter how hard we try to change that, no matter how belemic we get, or how many diets we go on, or how much we exercise, looking like the photoshopped skinny "perfect" model we see all the time is never going to happen to us.
It can't.
Because NOBODY can look like that.

So stop feeling upset girls. I know, sometimes its hard not to fret about the pimples on our faces. And the guys don't really help either. The guys of our generation have been wired to look at us "like that", to want to have girlfriends that are victoria secret model look-alikes, even Justin Bieber fell victim to that! So most guys don't help, but that just sets your standards :) When you can be comfortable with yourself, and are strong and independent, you'll find yourself loved by guys that are decent enough to like you for you, and then you can be confident in picking a guy that truly cares for you. Settling for a Justin Bieber-ish loserface that wants you looking skinny and curvy (and staying healthy at the same time) is settling, and you don't want to SETTLE, coz you're so much more worth that :)

So give your hair some bounce, groom yourself well, put on nice perfume and wear comfortable, yet pretty clothing; walk with some confidence and smile like there's no tomorrow..! Life is so much easier when you're happy with yourself :)

Think about it.

Are you Good Enough? YOU DECIDE!

So! It's been a while since I've blog posted. Almost 2 years! But let's keep this things going..


I was talking to a friend and he had issues with what people thought about his LOOKS. And it got my pondering...
I always want to tell people how it's not important...looks aren't important. What better way to do that than to blog eh?


Yeah that's so cliche isn't it? "Looks aren't everything." Well guess what. THEY ARE. -_- Annoyingly, it is not uncommon knowledge. Society always expects you to look your best. Let's face it, we all have laughed at that one kid that wore the most ridiculous outfit to the mall EVER.
And at that other girl that wore too much make up.
At that guy that wore a t-shirt that was too tight. Laughed at his "man boobs"..
At that girl who's face was covered in pimples..
             




Some of us have rejected the one kid that comes up to us and admits they have a crush on you.
"omg Eww you are GROSS!"
"um..no thanks.."
"You're fat. Sorry, no."


Some of us have been on the receiving end- rejected by other people.
And that's what teenage hood is all about. Trying to fit in! Trying to feel accepted and look attractive enough.


Have you ever felt like giving up? "I'm short and skinny" "I'm too dark and have pimples" "I'm overweight and ugly" "I will never be loved by anyone.."
Hell yeah you won't if you go around with that attitude!!!!!! Cmon guys and gals! MAN UP! If you're gonna walk around putting yourself down, then so will the world! Remember, every other teen is trying to be better than the next, so the minute you say you're no good, of course people will agree! People like other people that are confident of themselves! It's the only way people will look beyond you're physical appearance and will focus on what you are. You're personality.


And that is what's most important :)


Teenagers these days find the need to fit in. That's perfectly understandable. But it's high time they realized that EVERYONE ELSE is trying to fit in too! Yeah the popular kids may seem "loved by all", but you haven't yet counted the number of people in the world that love YOU! And I'm sure if you DID, it would cross 500! And the kids whom you think "have it all", really don't. Because they wouldn't have what YOU have.
When you think about it, you are equally blessed. So there is no point in worrying about self image. :)


And heck, you're still growing aren't you? So you're gonna change! Once you're 20 you'll probably look different. And its not like you're trying to find you're life partner at 15 right? (or around?) Coz that would be pretty..stupid. Just saying :)


Take my word for it, you'll be alright! When you feel you're no good, count the things you ARE good at.


And pray :)


Remember: You are only as strong as you believe you are.
Have a great day !

Fight your battle, and win the war..

11-19.
you're at an age where you're tooo confused. well, stop behaving like "your life sucks" and do something about it!  if you're trying so hard to "blend in", why not start by being bold enough to face every challenge that comes our way, instead of starting an "i hate my life" campaign ??? 


this is for all those people out there who consider themselves losers. if you're pretty happy with your life, there will be no need to proceed :)


People often say, life's too short. I've learnt that recently. Happy people aren't always happy on the inside, and we seldom know why that is. somehow no matter how much we have, we never find time to appreciate! The constant "need" to fit in has its upside and downside. while being an extremely good measure that leads to many amazing friendships, it also leads to broken hearts, to be more precise, the broken hearts of parents. 
Those angelic life mates try their best to give their every child all the need, and yet when you're a teen, we don't notice it, do we? And the regular heated arguments at home are the result of this very "thing" going unnoticed...


i won't let you get bored, i only want to make a point. life really is too short to ignore the smallest things, which mean the biggest to us in our hearts. We ARE meant to make mistakes, but we must realize the most important of things, before we lose them...


love your family, love your friends, and most importantly, love YOURSELF. don't let it go, you DON'T wanna find yourself a mess after a few years. Peers may SEEM to have the best of advice. ever thought these "peers" are going through the same stuff you are? if YOU can't solve your problems, how sure are you that they can? you'll end up doing what you'd LIKE to do, rather than what you must. need some help? a shoulder to cry on? someone to talk to? find someone older than you, like a parent or a cousin, anyone you feel is wise enough to understand. Sometimes you simply MUST do whats right...


think about it. be a sport. don't let the wind take you wherever it blows, choose the path you want to blow into! no single person is dumb enough to remain a whiner....


and the last thing: have fun. these are your best years, make the most of it! :) and smile as often as you can...


and whenever you're having a bad day, find someone, ANYONE, who'll cheer u up! in short, try to laugh your heart out as quickly as possible, it works, every time. you'll find your day isn't so bad after all!!


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